How To Make A Woman Like You On The First Date

Most dating advice sells you a fantasy: say the right thing, follow the right steps, and attraction is guaranteed. That’s not how real dating works anymore. You can do everything “right” and still get ghosted — not because you failed, but because modern dating has changed in ways most people don’t understand.

In this video, we break down what actually happens on first dates today. Why the advice your father learned no longer applies. Why being nice, stable, and respectful is no longer enough to create attraction. And why trying to perform the version of yourself you think she wants usually backfires.

We dive deep into the psychology behind first-date attraction — the tension between evolutionary wiring and modern social conditioning, why people often don’t know what they truly want, and how dating apps and social media have reshaped expectations beyond recognition. You’ll learn why stated preferences rarely match real attraction, and how to read engagement instead of empty words.

This isn’t about tricks, lines, or manipulation. It’s about understanding presence, confidence, leadership, and authenticity in a way that works in today’s dating landscape. We talk about the difference between assertiveness and pressure, honesty versus performance, and why radical authenticity — while harder upfront — leads to better outcomes long-term.

You’ll also learn:

Why many people go on dates just to “browse,” not to choose

How to spot genuine interest versus polite disinterest

How to create natural tension without being aggressive

Why trying to be chosen kills attraction — and how to flip the dynamic

How abundance changes your mindset and your results

Most importantly, this video reframes the real question. You can’t make a woman like you. What you can do is show up as your real, best self — confident, present, and selective — and quickly identify who actually responds to that reality.

If you’re tired of confusion, mixed signals, and advice that sounds good but fails in real life, this video will give you clarity. Not illusions. Not promises. Just the truth about first dates in the modern world.