Aita For Kicking Out My Husband’s Best Friends And Moving My Younger Sister In Instead?

AITA for clicking out my husband’s best friends and moving in my younger sister instead? Me and my husband have been married for five years this October. Him and his best friend (we’ll call him Jacob) have been best friends since they were three. Jacob’s lived with his mom and dropped out of Highschool in maybe his junior year. He’s never had an ID, never had a job, didn’t finish school & never leaves the house unless absolutely necessary. It can be hard just to get him out of his room.

But my husband and Jacob have stayed close through it all. My husband and I even paid for Jacob’s girlfriend (we’ll call her Sandy) to get a plane ticket from basically across the country so she could move in with him at his moms house and they can be together. She made the move and they’ve been together since. They met when they were like 11 or so online and were an online long distance relationship for all those years. Jacob is like 1-2 years older than me, my husband & Sandy. We’re 23 now so he’s like 24-25.

Anyways, me and my husband got our first house this April & invited them to move in. The idea was they move in, we help him get his vital docs, and then they both work and help pay some bills. Win win, right? I helped Sandy get her first ever job (she’d never worked before) at a place I was working and she completely biffed it. She got fired for performance issues after four months and I promise you it was literally THE EASIEST job she will probably ever find. And even when she was working, I had to pry $100 a week out of her cold dead hands. (I think I should also mention we pay for all their food, toiletries, Wi-Fi, everything)

When she got fired, I told them to both apply to at least 5 jobs a day and to clean the kitchen as their contribution to the household. They had applied to maybe 10 jobs after a week and neglected the kitchen. It came to the point where I got home from work and found maggots in the kitchen. (I spent a loooott of time at work for about two weeks so I wasn’t home enough to notice sooner. I never even sued the kitchen) I flipped out on them but told them I’d give them another chance.

Well, long story short my 19yr old sister is in DCS’s independent living program and needs somewhere to go for now. DCS will pay for her to stay with us which will help a bit and to make sure she can save money to get her a car AND I can help my sister like I had tried to help Jacob and Sandy. Plus, I just needed an extra push to send them back to Jacob’s mom’s house. My husband is very upset and feels bad that they have to leave because he said I didn’t give them the chance to correct themselves and make it better. He said i gave them a chance and then like three days later said my sister is moving in, but I feel like I already gave them many chances. It’s causing a wedge between me and my husband. Am I in the wrong? Should I have given them more time? AITAH
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