An 82-year-old Grandmother Just Won The Right For Her Retirement Home To Have Happy Hour

When you’re 82 years old, you’ve (one would hope) earned the right to be treated like an adult who can make their own decisions. And yet, we sometimes allow the opposite to occur instead, particularly to senior citizens in assisted living facilities or retirement communities. The rationale of attempting to provide the best possible care or healthiest living conditions is all too easily hijacked by a strain of ageism that strips those residents of their most basic rights to choose what they want to do with themselves on a daily basis … up to and including having a glass of freakin’ wine.

So it was for grandmother Anita LeBrun of Champlin, Minnesota, who apparently enjoys an occasional chilled glass of pinot grigio, especially in the company of her friends and neighbors. For years, her assisted living facility made this easy enough, running twice-weekly happy hour events where residents were allowed to drink in moderation with the blessing of their physicians. But after an event in 2025 where the nursing home attempted to serve a celebratory champagne toast following the conclusion of some renovations, the state stepped in, insisting that it was against state law for a nursing home to distribute alcohol in this way. What was Anita LeBrun to do, but become the face of a newly passed piece of legislation to formally return her right (and everyone else’s) to Happy Hour?

LeBrun testified twice to members of the state’s legislature, arguing that requiring a nursing home to possess a restaurant-style alcohol license in order to serve the occasional glass of wine or beer to its residents was a pointlessly anal reading of state law. Minnesota Gov. Tim Walz agreed, and the two chambers managed to reach a rather shocking consensus: The “Grandparents Happy Hour” bill passed with 129 votes in its favor, and exactly one cantankerous soul in opposition. As Walz said, recently signing the bill into law: “Growing older shouldn’t mean giving up the freedoms you’ve enjoyed your whole life.” Following the signing of the bill, Walz visited the assisted living facility, Amira Choice Champlin, to join its residents in a toast.

“It’s just kind of fun when you say, ‘Well, today’s happy hour,’ and with a drink, it just makes it all the better,”
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Granted, it’s not that alcohol had previously been banned in the assisted living facility altogether–residents were already allowed to partake in their own rooms, with their own hooch. The issue was that the home itself was denied the ability by the state to electively choose to make alcohol available to its residents, whether casually or at special events. And although residents were technically free to acquire alcohol on their own, some of them lacked means of personal transport or rarely left the facility, and weren’t about to jump on a bus to go to a convenience store to pick up a six-pack or bottle of wine. They were people who would have liked the option to choose to have a drink, but who were no longer ever being offered that option, thanks to the fact that the facility didn’t have a liquor license. And treating a retirement community like a bar & grill, or requiring the same permitting, simply didn’t make a lot of sense in the eyes of the facility’s leadership.

“Assisted living and nursing home dining operations are already operating under a comprehensive public health regulatory framework designed to prevent foodborne illness and protect residents,” said executive director Abigail Dahl to legislators, appearing alongside LeBrun. “Requiring a liquor license is simply red tape without value. It’s duplicative, not protective.”

At the end of the day, it’s a matter of whether we believe that those who have some level of physical frailty still have the right to make decisions for themselves, or to enjoy the simple creature comforts the rest of us tend to take for granted. If, for instance, our ancient legislators in Washington D.C. want a drink, is anyone going to deny it to them just because so many of them are in the same age bracket as the residents of Amira Choice Champlin? We don’t know if Mitch McConnell is alive or dead, but if he showed up at a D.C. watering hole tomorrow night and requested a glass of pinot grigio, would anyone press him to his face on whether his 84-year-old, barely cogent ass was fit to drink it? I rather doubt it. To act as if none of the residents of an assisted living facility could handle having a drink is patronizing in a way these people truly don’t need. Give them the benefit of the doubt, and the benefit of conviviality as well.