Urgent Nri Advice Needed: 24/7 Home Care / Palliative Support In Pathanamthitta (adoor/pandalam) For Terminal Grandparents
Hi everyone, I am an NRI currently living abroad and facing a deeply emotional and challenging situation with my grandparents in Kerala. I need urgent advice and agency recommendations from locals.
The Situation:
Grandfather: Diagnosed with Stage 4 mouth cancer. Doctors have given him about 1 month to live. He can walk a bit but cannot talk much.
Grandmother: Paralyzed from a stroke, completely bedridden, non-verbal, and diabetic. She has been in this state for 5 years and has lost a significant amount of weight.
The Dynamic: My grandfather is incredibly adamant about taking care of my grandmother himself. He has been her primary caregiver for 5 years—feeding her, wiping her body, and providing extreme care. He wants to continue doing this for as long as he can.
My Mother: She lives in the Adoor/Pandalam area. My mother wants to be there, visit them, spend quality time, and help out as much as she can. However, she is physically weak and not mentally strong enough to handle the devastating end-of-life medical crisis and heavy nursing tasks alone. She is completely overwhelmed.
We want to honor his final wish to care for his wife at home. However, to save my mother from a physical breakdown and ensure my grandfather has physical backup when his cancer weakens him, we need to bring in an invisible safety net—24/7 live-in medical caregivers / home nurses.
The caregivers will act as his "assistants"—doing the heavy lifting, turning my grandmother to prevent bedsores, and handling diaper changes, while letting my grandfather still feed her and hold her hand.
What I need help with:
- Can you recommend highly reliable 24/7 home nursing agencies or eldercare networks that service the Adoor / Pandalam / Pathanamthitta belt?
2.Have any of you worked with Muthoot Homecare (Kozhencherry) or Anvayaa (Pathanamthitta) for 24/7 end-of-life/bedridden care? How was your experience?
Thankyou for your guidance
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