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Aitah For Breaking Up With My Fiancee When She Sided With My Ex.

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I got divorced six years ago. My wife had been cheating basically our entire marriage. Neither my daughter or the kid she was pregnant with were biologically mine. I went to court to make sure I didn't have to pay child support. She had committed paternity fraud so it was difficult but not impossible. Her ex boyfriend was the father. Her and my daughter moved into his apartment and that was that.

I kept my house and had no parental rights or responsibilities. It fucking sucked. I loved my daughter. Anyways I moved on. I met someone new eventually. She had a five year old son. We were planning for our future. After three years together we got engaged. All was looking good.

Then my ex's live imploded. Her boyfriend died. They had a grand total of like $20,000 in savings. His parents were the beneficiaries of his $100,000 life insurance. They put it into education funds for the kids.

My ex can't afford her life anymore. This is not my problem in my opinion. Her family won't help her. She has two young children and no support. So she has been reaching out to me.

Fuck that noise. I told her no. I told her to leave me alone. I blocked her everywhere. So she came by the house. I wasn't home. My fiancee was. They talked. I'm in the wrong apparently. I got home and they were still talking. I need to help my ex. That's not going to happen. My fiancee said that she wasn't sure she could marry me if I was so heartless. I agreed and called off the wedding. I told her that her and her son had thirty days to get out of my house.

She tried backtracking but she had shown me her true face. I'm apparently just a walking wallet. I have zero interest in that.

My ex fiancee moved back in with her parents. I made sure that everything that belonged to her was out of my house. Her and her parents have been trying to contact me to get me to change my mind. I don't see their point at all. I don't expect my partner to agree with me on everything. But on important things we need to be a united front.

My ex and her kids have moved in with her boyfriends parents but they aren't really welcome there. Not my problem.

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