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Bd Threatening For "cash" Hes Been Sending.

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Location: Ohio

My ex and I were never married, I was in a relationship for almost 5 years with this boy, ended up getting pregnant, got scared when I found out she was a girl and in a short story, I got him to move back to Alabama and ended the relationship. Shes almost 2 and ive been constantly guilt tripped because Im not bringing her to see him. I dont ask for child support because he doesn't work. Ive always said he can come visit her whenever he wants but he needs to find his own ride and his own place to stay. His name is on her birth certificate because I was with him when I gave birth and I was too scared to say no at the time. Now hes been starting to send 20-50 bucks here and there because he got money from his grandpa when he passed. At first I didn't touch it but he asked me if I could buy toys or snacks for his daughter so I finally would buy little toys or stuff anf show him photos, but now hes saying that a court would see that as him paying support when he doesn't have a job or anything. He always asks for me to get back with him and hes changed but I "hate" him so much and I say "evil" things cause I tell him it wont work and He should look for possibly other women. He constantly tells me his dad's dying and all he wants is for me to let his dad see his granddaughter. But when I say he needs to find a way to come up here he says thats not fair and how could I put that on him and keep his daughter from him. He constantly makes me feel bad and then either threatens that hes spoke to people or starts crying and making me feel bad.

I just need some solid advice. Am I the evil one making my daughter not have a father (him)

Ive been told to block him and get an attorney but like realistically what would happen? Ig or what else could I do?

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