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Boyfriend Threatening To Post My Nudes

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LOCATION: I’m in NJ and he is moving.

We are both early 20s.

We dated for 6 months. He ended up cheating on me. It was a messy break up because I still really wanted it to be him. But I consider him my ex boyfriend. I mentioned multiple times I don’t want him to keep my photos/videos and he just said “they’re mine now and I’m keeping them”.

He sent me a link to an outside site (I can’t tell what the website really is outside of a hosting service, it’s just something from amazon. I don’t want to add the link here for obvious reasons) that when you press on it, it leads to a video of me masturbating that I had sent him. I think it was one of the first videos I sent him of that nature.

I’m assuming this link is public because I copied and pasted it and I’m able to view it in incognito mode. I’m terrified. He also added my instagram handle in the message he sent.

**I looked into the link, it looks like it’s some cloud storage site**

Does this count as revenge porn?? Is what he doing illegal? What are my options? Please please help.

Updates:

I’ve contacted : stopncii.org, the police in his town and Amazon AWS x2 (once on their regular queries option and another when someone kind here gave me another contact specifically for abuse). Someone mentioned I could also contact IC3/FBI because the situation qualifies, but I’ll wait to hear what everyone else says first.

Thank you all for helping me with this. It’s largely embarassing and awfully terrifying.

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