Ex-boyfriend With No Custody Or Biological Relationship

Location: Kansas

My Ex-Boyfriend and I were together almost 4 years. My oldest was 2 at the time. She is now 6 years old. We broke up due to his controlling nature and mental/emotional abuse. My oldest seemed like she still wanted to see him. She didn't tell me until 11 months after breakup, that she didn't want to see him anymore. (I do have a second child and it's biologically his)

She told me: "He got in my face and said he hates me as much as he hates you."

He also told her, "Your mother is going to Hell because she doesn't believe in God."

"You will be a loser like your mom because you play video games like she does."

I had things break like my computer and he claims that she did it and a couple other things he's done in a past that's similar. All that stopped once he was kicked out.

I told her, she doesn't have to see him if she doesn't want to as he isn't her biological father. (Biological Father out of picture, he abandoned her).

I told him, "Charlotte says she doesn't want to see you anymore. She isn't happy or feel comfortable. As her mother, I respect my child's choice." He went off saying "If I had a heart, I wouldn't take her away. How dare I take his kid away, he never hurt her."

I told him, "it's her choice if she wants to or not. You have to respect it. I will allow her back over if she chooses to."

He does post photos of her without permission and I have him blocked from my posts and everyone removed we had in common and somehow he still gets the pictures of mine to post.

I do have my daughter in therapy. As she told her therapist, she doesn't want to see him and said things he has done and said to her about me and her. I did not know about. He has called CPS but it's anonymous so I can't prove it. The things CPS listed off that was claimed, They had a hard time reading it and it was exactly how he uses grammar so that was how I knew it was him. CPS said I was fine and nothing in my house or the kids were as he claimed. He claimed I had a really dirty house and that the kids were not taking care of and too skinny. CPS lady literally looked at me and said "everything is just fine and the girls look good."

Today he claimed he had a lawyer and he won't back off unless he hears it from herself. She hasn't seen him since November and her behavior has been so much better. I told him, "It's pretty messed up you are trying to force yourself into her life when she said she doesn't want to see you."

He said he can get rights due to KSA 23-3301 because of her biological not being around.

He also sent:

"But whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him if a millstone were hung around his neck, and he was drowned in the depth of the sea" (Matthew 18:6, ESV).

"May God have mercy on whom ever leads her to believe I don't love her and that I would actually say such things."

Him and I never got married and he never adopted her. He lives with his mother and he can't hold a job long. In 4 years, he went though 5 jobs. One of them being a failing business he always got sued all the time by customers. His checks always getting garnished. He doesn't have custody of two previous children, he signed his rights away too. The only one he has rights to is the youngest who is 3 years old.

Is there anything I can do or advice? I don't want my oldest to go through anymore than what she already has.

Edit: I do have proof that they are on all my insurances through my work, I've been consistent on my job as my current employer I've been with for 4 years. All my jobs I stayed about 4 years at. I have all their dental records and their vision records. I have kept every single copy of their follow-up with their pediatrician. I have every single paper from parent-teacher conferences that say my child is doing fantastic and is beyond her grade level. I even have documentation that I am mentally capable of being a parent regardless of my mental health. My bills are all paid and handled on my own. I have every single text and messages from other people where he tried to claim I was a bad parent and they all vouch for me saying that I am a good parent.