My 14 Year Old Is Being Groomed & The Man Who Is Doing So Is Also Distributing Drugs With Her And Nobody Is Doing Anything.
Location: Wisconsin
(Correction in title my 14 yr old sister)
Hi so I’m usually on here for college advice like what laptop to get etc.. I just got off the phone with (bigger city police) tip line and decided to tell people about this because I’m not sure who to turn too for help or advice.
Disclaimer: my parents and I have a complicated relationship this post contains (self harm/grooming/sa)SORRY IF THIS IS WRITTEN BAD I TYPED IT UP SUPER FAST)
This all started when we moved to a smaller town in Wisconsin. I’m a Jr in high school and she is a 7th grader we all seemed to adjust pretty normally after a few weeks of going to school here my little sister however started changing I’m not entirely sure how to explain it without sounding like an asshole parent but my parents said “acting grow.” Look I didn’t really think so since middle school is where things change and you express yourself differently. My parents however was really on my little sisters tail she was skipping school a lot and class and even got caught vaping and smoking weed at school. Now let me be honest I’ve done dumb stuff in middle school so like I said it wasn’t the biggest concern. Then my sister started hanging out with a girl constantly let’s call her Lisa she is also in the same grade as her and I’ve even met her a couple of times. They made sense being friends had the same vibes both shared the same humor I didn’t really think much of it until this bad behavior became worse and even more prominent. I’m not gonna go into a lot of detail because it’s so much to explain but she really was starting to have concerning behavior self harm and serious drug use and had a boyfriend who was a really trouble some
kid and I believe he sa her.. mind you when this stuff started happening I would talk to my sister about this and she would confine in me. I did my best to give her advice and my parents weren’t really even aware but then became aware later on. Fast forward a bit senior year my little sister is talking to guy according to my older sister who told me I said oh who? And to my shock she said a guy named will call him (Marcus). Marcus was a guy I had the same classes with and who i believe was a senior in highschool and at this point my little sister was in 8th grade. I’m freaking out I told my parents and how I believed this Marcus was the same one who asked for my social media. My parents weren’t really believing me I’m not sure why they chose to believe my sister. This broke me down why won’t they believe me I know it’s him I can’t really explain but I had a feeling. Mind you my little sister kept telling me it wasn’t the Marcus I was thinking of. I did some digging on him the one who I think it was and I found out it was her friend Lisa’s older brother..
Truly I was in shock wtf I told my parents and again nobody believed me it hurt me more I wanted to protect my baby sister. And then he came over and met my parents and I saw him IT WAS THIS GUY THE MARCUS WHO ASKED FOR MY SNAPCHAT WTF.
I talked to my bf my friends about what I should do I was freaking out. My older sister told me that she was saying he was 16 to my parents it was total bullshit I knew it and I needed to prove it I searched for my year book. I took a picture he was jr and I was a senior but he was help back according to my fellow peers at school. He was 19.. as i believed I freaked out and showed my dad over text as I was away from home. I got him I knew it my dad even said if he was 18 he’d kick him out and my proof was solid. Then my dad approved it HE APPROVED THEIR RELATIONSHIP WTF. saying it was okay because my parents had an age gap of 8 years I was so mad I wanted to kill this Marcus I wanted to scream at my parents. Nothing was done I am ashamed I stopped trying I focused on my own stuff college coming up and graduating.. i felt like a shit sister for this.
Fast forward summer of a graduate of high school i spent the summer with my boyfriend really I didn’t like being home much. College came along and I went as soon as I could get out of there. My little sister called me telling me she liked Marcus so much but didn’t know if she was making the right choice of making it like an official relationship of course I told her hell no and he’s grooming you. And shortly after they ended up official this was extremely disgusting. Then the worst happened HE MOVED IN into our home and that was just the worst because every time I came home from college he was there I glared at him every chance I got. He’s glared at me back, what a creepy guy. And then as life kinda continued to be this way she started posting things on her Instagram notes her TikTok all about selling drugs shrooms acid for sale all this and I knew he was buying it and she was helping him sell it. there is countless screenshots I have videos of this. I do not know if my parents are aware.. my older sister knew of these post and she didn’t report it.. so I guess I have to be the one too which fucking sucks. I kept making anonymous tips forms and submitting them to (small down) police department. Nothing has happened.. NOTHING. Lots of time has went by with this happening it’s already almost the end of my freshman year in college and I decided I’ve had enough but I also did it out of impulse I called the police department. Unfortunately I called (big city) police department not (small town) which made this a hell of a lot more complicated and I broke down sobbing to the cop and he wasn’t very helpful recommend I see a therapist or talk to a priest.. idk this made me so upset and I felt so stupid.. he told me to call (smaller town) police department or to go in person but I don’t have the guts im such a coward I wish I could stay anonymous but he said it would be really difficult for me to be anonymous.
What do I do please help.
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