My Kids Father Has Called The Police On Me 4 Times In The Last Year.

I live in the state of Location: ohio, and am 22 year’s old, I am a mother of two toddlers.

Me and my child’s father have had some problems with him sending me threatening and concerning texts, we went to court and I was forced to agree to him having them mon-Wednesday, and every other Saturday.

Well the day before the agreement was over me and my partner were cooking chicken and he sliced it and cut between his index finger and thumb and gave himself a laceration and it was bleeding uncontrollably, I called my child’s father in a panic and asked him to please let me update him and keep them a bit longer in the morning, he agreed but the next morning he was furious (this is typically how it goes in any situation he gets upset wants them to come home early, and sends me really hateful innapropiate texts, he calls me repeatedly, has his family or gf texting me calling me just anything in the book but especially a bad mom.

I have daycare and work full time and I do everything he doesn’t, he keeps calling for welfare checks saying I’m not stable if we get in a disagreement.

He has came to my work and attempted to get me fired, he has followed me, chased me in my apt all out of anger but then once the kids are with me he’s fine and happy asking when he can see them again? I don’t understand how I can prove this is harassment or if I can even do anything but I’m young and just need some guidance on making a good decision, the police don’t seem very nice towards me either or just the one cop in particular it’s always the same one, I can’t tell if he’s fed up or actually believes him.