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My Mother Locked Me Out Of My Childhood Home, And All My Belongings Are Still Inside. What Are My Legal Options? Location: California

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Location: California I’m 21 years old and have lived in my mother’s home for years. I don’t pay rent, but this has been my established residence, and my California ID still lists the address.

Recently, my mother and I had a disagreement that escalated. During a phone conversation, she made statements about me deserving to be physically assaulted, including being punched in the mouth. When I asked whether she was saying she needed to hit me, she said yes, although she later said she wasn’t going to do it.

Because she’s previously gotten physically in my face during arguments, I genuinely feared that returning home could result in a physical confrontation.

I discovered that my access to the home had been disabled. My garage remote no longer worked, my entry code didn’t work, and I no longer had access to the security system.

I contacted law enforcement and requested a civil standby so I could retrieve my belongings peacefully. A deputy accompanied me, witnessed that my access wasn’t working, and attempted to contact my mother, but she didn’t answer. I have the call-for-service number.

I was never given a formal eviction notice or court order requiring me to leave.

All my belongings are still inside, including clothing, school supplies, personal items, and furniture that I purchased myself.

I’m currently staying somewhere else and just want to retrieve my property safely without further confrontation.

I’ve contacted Legal Aid and am looking into emergency court options, including a possible restraining order and property-retrieval order.

I’m not looking to retaliate or escalate the situation. I just want to understand my rights and get my belongings back safely. Any personal experiences or guidance would be appreciated.

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