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My ex is taking me to child support court in LOCATION: New Jersey. I make slightly more than him — maybe $4k–$7k more per year — but he also receives bonuses from his job and earns additional money trading stocks.

I pay for our child’s health insurance. Because we have 50/50 custody week‑on/week‑off, I’m not allowed to leave the state, which forced me to get a car. I also pay extended childcare so I can work and attend school. My job pays a childcare benefit that goes directly to his mother.

I maintain a two‑bedroom apartment and cover utilities, food, clothing, transportation, and all other daily expenses.

My ex lives upstairs in his father’s home as a tenant, with his father living downstairs.

Given that I’m paying significantly more of the actual costs to support our child, even with 50/50 custody, how does New Jersey typically handle child support in situations where one parent has higher expenses but the other parent has additional income from bonuses and investments?

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