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Can I Do Anything About My Child’s Father’s Girlfriend (restrained Under Spo) Inserting Herself Into Custody Exchanges?

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Location: Oregon

I have a Stalking Protective Order (SPO) against a woman for ongoing online harassment and threats. She used to be my best friend. She is now dating my daughter’s father. We have a custody/parenting plan that has never had any issues unless it comes to his gf. Exchanges have always been handled through a third party (usually my mother) because of the existing orders. A previous judge specifically stated that the girlfriend is not to be involved in pick-ups or drop-offs. Recently the father has been: • Using girlfriends phone number to communicate with me about our daughter (I have told him to stop but he refuses) • Trying to arrange exchanges so that he can be with gf and her kids at the same time • Having gf’s family members present at exchanges I have consistently used third-party hand-offs and have refused to facilitate gf being present. I document everything and have kept my attorney updated. My question: Is there any motion or request I can make to the court to more clearly keep the restrained person out of the custody exchanges and co-parenting communication? Or is this something that just has to be repeatedly documented and raised through my attorney?

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