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Co-own A House With Estranged Parent Who Won’t Pay Bills Or Agree To Sell — What Are My Options?

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Location: Washington, USA.

I co-own a house with my father. Both of our names are on the title and the mortgage. Our relationship is strained and we are no longer on speaking terms.

I no longer live in the house. I moved out and now live in my spouse’s paid-off home. The co-owned house is sitting unused. My father does not live there either.

Despite this, I am currently paying all of the expenses on the house (mortgage, taxes, insurance, etc.). My father refuses to contribute financially, but also refuses to agree to sell the property.

From my perspective, I don’t want to keep paying for a house I don’t live in and can’t use, and I don’t want to default because my name is on the loan. From his perspective, he won’t help pay and won’t cooperate with selling.

I’m concerned that if I stop paying, my credit will be damaged even though I’m trying to act responsibly. I’m also worried he may be intentionally dragging this out to force a foreclosure or gain leverage.

I live in Washington State and am trying to understand:

• Whether I can force a sale of the property

• Whether I can recover or get credit for the expenses I’ve paid

• What legal options exist when a co-owner refuses to cooperate or contribute

Any advice from people familiar with property law, partition actions, or similar situations would be appreciated.

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