Forcing A 72-hour Blind International Travel Clause In "uncontested" Divorce—is This Fraud?

Location: Georgia, USA I am currently in a situation that has become incredibly strange and scary. My spouse just returned from a 10-month deployment from Poland and is acting like a completely different person. I discovered on our joint bank account that he has been looking up a Polish business and has been making frequent, unexplained Cash App transfers, atm withdrawals, Venmo transfers, and numerous 'Affirm' payments that point to a secret debt or hidden lifestyle. He is now aggressively pushing for a passport/travel clause and trying to separate me from our three kids by attempting to 'ship' them away to his mother’s the moment he got home. He pushed for a fast uncontested divorce, saying our house will cover all the debt that he’s going to sell. Another clause of me paying him $50k back in retirement down the line for past martial indebtedness. We had like 20k in debt when he left due to credit cards and loans, the number seems high. He always handled finances and everything was in his name. He’s an officer and I was stay at home mom. We have kids. He kept wanting to send me and our kids away his kids to his mom’s house and me at my moms in a different state.

attempting to push through a fraudulent uncontested divorce document that intentionally creates a massive legal loophole: while it offers transparency for domestic travel, it includes a predatory passport clause that would force me to surrender our three children’s passports for overseas travel on just 72 hours' notice without any requirement for an itinerary, flight numbers, or a destination, effectively granting him the power to disappear with the children internationally while keeping me in the dark.

He keeps speaking in riddles, telling me 'the truth will never come out' and that I’ll never find the money, that he’s a smart man. It feels like a quick liquidation of our entire 10-year marriage and an attempt to erase my role as a mother. He was always law-abiding, but this sudden obsession with foreign business and hiding marital assets feels like he is preparing for an exit I didn't see coming. He swears it’s not for another girl, although I’ve seen him texting a girl on what’s app. Has anyone dealt with a spouse suddenly hiding money overseas and using psychological 'riddles' to distract from financial fraud? He would beg me and thn threaten me not to go to court. Threaten me not to go to court. We are now contesting the divorce and going through the system, I’m just so concerned. Any thoughts,