Found Out My Partner Has Been Sending Intimate Videos And Pictures Of Me To A Stranger

I (20F) have been hooking up with a guy (23M) for the last 3 years. We would always take intimate videos and pictures. This week I checked his phone after having my suspicions. I found out that for at least the last 2 years he has been sending everything to his male friend (who I’ve never met) and not just that but they are trading videos of other girls they’ve slept with.

They even tell each other which position and stuff to record it in. It seems like his friend’s girlfriend is fully aware. I’m the only one who wasn’t. For years they have been planning foursomes and talking about getting me involved. I know his friend has been saving the videos to his gallery and I believe he is trading them with other people too.

At least one of the videos he sent was a sextape I made as a minor because when I started hooking up with this guy I was still 17. He was 20. I used my phone to record the messages on his screen. Idk if that’s enough proof. Anyway, I packed my shit and left but I’m worried he’s gonna continue to share these videos. Is it worth pursuing legal action to get the videos permanently deleted? I mentioned involving police already but I’m worried he’s gonna hide them in some thumb drive or app or something. He’s a conniving fucker. Plus, his friend has all the videos saved and he can just send them right back.

Never dealt with anything like this in my life so I’m really unsure where to go from here. Oh, I should mention I’m unemployed so affording anything is gonna be very tough. Seriously any advice helps!

Location: California