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Girlfriend Cheated. We Have A 13 Month Old Son. What Are My Next Steps?

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Location: Alabama

I’m M22, girlfriend is F25. I just bought a house we fully packed up the apartment and we’re gonna move in tomorrow. The house is in my name solely thank god.

We’ve been having some relationship problems since February and she has been incredibly distant. Well I got very drunk tonight and thought let me be a piece of garbage boyfriend and look through her phone. I just had a feeling. I had it for months but couldn’t bring myself to confirm until tonight.

Hundreds of pictures and videos of her and a guy in the Air Force(have his full name) in my apartment sharing our bed, her in random bathrooms and bedrooms with him. Doing things she would never even consider with me. Months worth of texts that almost hurt worse than the videos. They talk on the phone for hours daily.

It’s 2:25am and she’s fast asleep while I’m just sitting out here in my living room typing this. It’s taking everything in me to not wake her up right now saying is my fucking son actually mine.

This post probably isn’t up to the subreddits standards but if by the grace of god this stays up please give me advice on what my next steps should be because I’m sad and lost right now.

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