My (18f) Dad (50m) Is Abusive Towards My Mom (40f). I’ve Thought About Calling The Cops But I’m Scared. I Feel Like A Failure Of An Older Sister.
location: california
so i (18F) have been witnessing DV for the past 3 years. my dad hits my mom and even threatens to kill her. i have two younger sisters (16F, 7F) and both of them hate my dad.
the last time my dad assaulted my mom was on january 26th when he took her phone away bc she was on it too much. my mom got her phone back but she got assaulted when she got her phone back. my sisters and i were upstairs and i hesitated about calling 911 but my sister said no because she was scared of what if they leave and since there wasn’t evidence, what if my dad stays with us and doesn’t get arrested and then ends up killing one of us. my little sister was scared as well and said that she just wants to be a kid and doesn’t want to deal with this.
on the 29th of january, i had therapy appt through my uni’s CAPS (counseling and psychological services) and i vented to her about my situation. since she’s a mandatory reporter, she made the report to CPS and i also told her to them to contact me only and to not go to my house and she told them exactly that. it’s been almost 2 weeks and CPS hasn’t contacted me and honestly im so drained and i thought about declining their calls.
idk what to do and we’ve continuously begged and begged my mom to leave my dad but she just doesn’t listen. my innocence was lost living in this shitshow of a household and no amount of going to disneyland can get it back.
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