My Dad Is Trustee Of My Trust And Sold Property Without Telling Me. Now He Refuses To Show Where The Money Went

My dad is trustee of a trust my grandmother created for me in 2022, and I’m starting to think something is seriously wrong.

I’m 24f now and get full access at 25 on June 22. I’ve repeatedly asked for basic accounting info, like proof of where the trust money is being held, and instead I get denial, redirection, belittling, and refusal. He has literally said he is “not a trustee for hire” and acts like he can do whatever he wants.

The biggest issue is that property tied to the trust was apparently sold without my knowledge for about $380,000, which seems below market value. I was also told he took payment in cash, and I have not been given any proof that the proceeds were deposited into a trust account or protected in any way.

So now I’m worried about self-dealing, missing trust assets, and whether he is violating his duties as trustee. I’m trying to figure out what I can do as a beneficiary to force an accounting and protect whatever is left.

Please please if anyone has any suggestions on what I should do next or if there is any hope in saving or recovering any of the money from the sale, it would be a godsend. And if you read to the end of this post I thank you for your time regardless. Have a blessed day:)

Location: O’ahu, Hawaii

Edit/add on: My dad knows I’m broke and this is why I think he feels invincible.Because without a lawyer I can’t do SHIT and he KNOWS IT!!! He is now trying to get my other property into foreclosure by not paying the property tax, maintenance and other bills. That way it will look like he was forced to sell and pocket the money!