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Wife And I Are Separated And She Is Scheduling Plastic Surgery

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Location: Texas

I caught my wife of 28 years cheating on me almost 3 weeks ago. She moved out 2 weeks ago and while she moved out I’m still taking care of all the bills (joint checking account and both paychecks are going into it (for now).

I have filed the petition for divorce at the county courthouse and the 60 day waiting period started on Monday.

We have agreed to split amicably and split assets in half after selling the house.

I discovered today she has scheduled a consult with a local plastic surgeon. It would be cosmetic, not medically necessary, so we would be cash pay.

Can she legally take on massive expenses like surgery that I’ll end up having to pay half of, when I won’t even be the with her?

We do not currently have lawyers since we thought we could do this amicably, but this newest revelation is making me wonder.

Thoughts?

ETA: I will add that I want to reconcile and not throw away 28 years. I think I can forgive her violating, but not sure how I will ever be able to trust her, but I want to try.

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